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"Dear Tony,  "If you're not too busy, i just want to know your thoughts about my friend. I'm not sure if I'm being taken advantaged. Sending you her photo. Thank you, as always.  "______" My reply: Hello ______! I am sorry to confirm that this woman is a user of the first degree. Her typical weapons are flattery and the sharing of "secrets". These are the same weapons she wields on men, when she wishes to win and control them.